I've experienced a few changes of 'career' in my life.
My love of weather took me into my first job with
the Meteorological Office in that beautiful coastal
town of Plymouth. My next move was into the Department
of Health and Social Security in London where I first
encountered the ludicrous systems the Government has
to support those who are suffering. Systems where
a 25 year old (me) with no medical qualifications
gets to make a decision about whether or not someone
is fit for work by asking a stack of insensitive questions.
I can't help but think that this brief encounter (it
lasted 4 months before becoming intolerable) influenced
my current occupation.
I then spent 15 years of my life working
as a computer programmer/systems analyst, designing
systems for a chemical company in Manchester (UK).
During this time I experienced many severe episodes
of what I now recognise as unhappiness caused by being
unaware of my high physiological sensitivity, and
that the problem was largely one of over-arousal for
extended periods, but the doctors diagnosed it as
severe or chronic anxiety and maybe even depression.
I guess they thought I was depressed (I never did,
I just thought I was scared of life) because I swallowed
an awful lot of anti-depressants. Still, that lengthy
period of unhappiness, culminating in a request, from
my employers, to leave my employment, was a long time
ago now. It was followed by a period of healing, during
which I encountered new ways of viewing life and the
world - ways that seemed to make so much more sense
than the beliefs I had held for so long. During that
period of healing, of getting to know the real me,
I realised that though anxiolytics and anti-depressants
help to make life tolerable they never change anything.
And because they never change anything you have to
spend your life worried about leaving the house without
sufficient supply of drugs in your pocket to cover
'emergencies'; or worry every time you go to get your
prescription whether or not your GP will change your
drugs and put you through that Hell of having to re-adjust
without ending up feeling any better; or go through
the Hell of coming off them and be back in exactly
the same place as you were all those years ago when
you started taking them.. It's a real Catch-22 situation.
So I started looking for 'a better way'.
Part of that seeking led me to explore
Hypnotherapy. So I did. I trained, received my certificate,
then my diploma, and I continued working towards Full
Membership of the British Society of Clinical Hypnosis.
I discovered that hypnosis is a wonderful
therapeutic tool and using it I am able to make a
positive impact upon the lives of those who come to
visit me. I get a great deal of pleasure when someone
comes with a phobia, say, and in the space of one
session this long-term problem just disappears and
they are free of its restrictions. Unfortunately,
not everything is fixed so easily and problems like
the one I had - long-term anxiety, panic attacks,
nervousness, agoraphobia and so on, take longer to
alleviate. But I find these equally rewarding as it
gives me the opportunity to get know those who come
to me and I receive welcome feedback so the treatment
can be individually tailored.
In my Journey I also discovered other
ideas to assist you in making whatever changes you
wish to make. My joy is to share what I know with
a willing listener. To share with someone who is willing
to do what it takes in order to be free of their prison
bars. I love to use my skills and knowledge to ensure
that whoever comes to me doesn't have to endure the
Hell that I endured for a significant part of my life.
I don't treat you from a book. I use books to support
my own knowledge, experience, and intuition.
...and talking of books, I recently
came across a book called The Highly Sensitive Person
by Elaine N Aron. This book speaks of the one in five
of us who are born with an extremely sensitive physiology.
I realised two things while reading this book, Elaine
was describing me with an insight that no one else
has ever shown, and she was also describing a significant
proportion of the people who come to me for help.
So if you happen to be an HSP and you'd like some
help from a practitioner who understands what that
means from the inside, then please get in touch.
I have experienced ineffective treatment
from psychiatrists and psychologists. I have also
experienced very effective treatment from one psychologist,
Dr Robin Hensman, whose wonderfully gentle approach
and sensitivity gave me the model I use to be with
those who come to me for help. I treat people gently
and with sensitivity. No one has to sit, with the
panic rising inside them for twenty minutes or half
an hour, waiting to see me. I operate from a comfortable
relaxed environment. I enjoy my work, and smile, and
don't wear a suit or a tie, but I'm deadly serious
about what I do.
I hope you decide to come and visit.
You can even come and have a chat about your problem
for free, so that you can decide whether you'd like
me to help you live the life you were born to live.
I hope to see you soon.